Seldom do we encounter a person whose influence touches our lives significantly, even if we have never actually met.  Yes, we can experience the trickle-down effect of leaders whose policies affect our long term results.  But seldom does one individual’s message touch us in such a way as to expand our vision, while at the same time narrowing our focus.  Such a man for me was Randy Pausch, who died on July 25, 2008, at the age of 47.

Mr. Pausch, a professor at Carnegie Mellon University, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in the fall of 2006.  Soon after learning of his illness, Randy gave “The Last Lecture,” Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams, which traditionally is the final lecture that a professor gives before his retirement.  In Randy’s case, however, “The Last Lecture” took an unexpected turn: it became the message we all wish we would take the time to think about but rarely do—what do you do when you know you have only a short time to live?

The Last Lecture, originally given to students packed into Carnegie Mellon’s auditorium, was uploaded in shortened version onto YouTube, and took off like wildfire.  Oprah Winfrey invited Randy to give the lecture on her show.  Diane Sawyer did a one hour special reviewing Randy’s message.  Over 6 million people watched the YouTube condensed version, and by the time Randy passed away, he had made a major imprint in the lives of countless people.

My previous post to this one was about breathing: how we can survive for weeks without food, and days without water, but only minutes without breathing.  In writing it, and in reading of Randy’s death, I was acutely reminded once again of how valuable each moment is.

Randy’s message for me is that time is limited: time matters, and how we use every second of every minute of every day leads to an end result.  Consequently, we should always be aware—always asking ourselves if the choice we make is truly worth our time.  Is it?  Where does this choice lead?  Why should I choose this option over this other one?  In the long run, what will bring me closer to the memories, feelings, relationships, and experiences I want to have in my life?

Years ago, I attended a seminar taught by Brian Biro, a motivational speaker.  Brian taught us to “enjoy every precious moment,” a sentiment that my wife echoes on our answering machine.  Perhaps Randy Pausch did not enjoy every moment—certainly the last few days of his life were extremely painful.  But if making a difference in the lives of countless numbers, who now are savoring their experiences, relishing the relationships they have with friends and loved ones, and measuring their moments with greater care, Randy has made a difference.  I pray Randy’s family will be strengthened and blessed, despite his absence.

Although we never met, I thank him.